Friday, May 25, 2012

Wedding Bells

  Hola amigos! So as a few of you know the last time we were here, we got really close to an awesome couple named Gabe & Jill. They got engaged in the fall at the big formal party. And this past weekend was their wedding.  So here is a look at what a Mexican wedding is like. ;)
Jill's Shower

 Tay & Jill
 Eri, Tania, Taby, & Ai
 The Beautiful Bride To Be


   So the night before the wedding, we went to a Callejonada. Which is a traditional celebration done here in Zac. (possibly all of Mexico, but I'm not sure....) It can be done for pretty much any special occasion, and goes as follows:

Step 1: Get Yourself A Cup
(They are little ceramic pots, worn around your neck. Ours were fittingly decorated with the wedding colors.)

Step 2: Get A Donkey
(The donkey carries Mezcal on his back, which is a type of Tequila)

Step 3: Find A Band

Step 4: Drink The Mezcal

Step 5: Follow The Band & Donkey Wherever They Go
(In this case all through downtown Zac.)

 Jill & Meg
(and Gabe's cousins in the background;)


Step 6: Dance!!!
(When the band stops, which is pretty much wherever they want, you dance!)


Step 7: Take Ridiculous Photos

Gabe, Jill, Donkey 

Hey look, its two........well you get the idea.


 Gabe & Jill had tacos waiting for us at the end.

The Wedding

   Finally!! Its actually time for the wedding. First a little about Gabe & Jill. When we first came to Zac they were some of the first ones to befriend us. Jill was in our congregation with her 8 year old son Beto. And Gabe was in our sister congregation in Guadalupe. (They are both now in our cong.) They are both non-native English speakers who have chosen to learn a new language and help where the need is greater in English. We appreciate there sacrifice sooo much, they add greatly to the congregation. They are some of the most kind, loving, generous people we have ever met. And we are extremely blessed to have them as friends, they help us not miss home quite so much.;)

Beto walking Jill down the isle.

The Vows

Mr. & Mrs. Aboytes!

The Reception

   The wedding was held in a hotel, that used to be a Bull Fighting ring. The acrhes and old theater setting were a beautiful back drop.

 Tania & Taby

 Patrick & Dinah
(Our service overseer and his wife)

Chris & Tabs

 Tay & Eri



Bill & John

 Congratulating the happy couple.

 Chad & Tania

Chris & Taby

Dance, Dance, Dance!

 Towards the end Jill & Gabe danced to "their song".

After which sparklers went off around the dance floor.

And then.............

Soo dad, I get fireworks at my wedding to right??
Last but not least we finished the evening (well by this time it was moring) with a little mariachi! And of course more food.;)

Then men of Gabe's family graced us with their singing.
   So there you go. A typical Mexican wedding. Ok, so not eeevery wedding in Mexico is quite like Gabe & Jill's. You must admit theirs was pretty special. ;) We love you guys, thanks for inviting us.
   And we want to give a Congrats to the new Mr. & Mrs. Chopin and  The Mills Family! Congratulations guys. We love you, and wish we could have been there. Come visit soon.:)
Tay & Meg


  1. I don't care what anyone say's I have the two prettiest girls there. Of course Nanna and I are prejudiced. Ha
    Very beautiful wedding Meg. Give our congratulations to Gabe and Jill. Tell them to stay close to Jehovah and they will have a successful marriage too.